The Paradox Of Writing
I write for you. With every sentence I type, I pass my words through a filter of how I think you’ll react. If your opinion didn’t matter, I wouldn’t be distributing my writing; I would keep to journals, in which I could scribble and dabble and review every few years to see how my identity had evolved. Or, I wouldn’t write at all. Yet there is an excitement which I believe all writers feel in the prospect of creating something that translates an emotion so well that it can reach the quick of another person.
Still, the very foundation of writing is honesty. If I were to write solely for other people’s benefit, my work would be inauthentic, noticeably lacking in that glimmer of originality that gives a piece its impact.
Therein lies the paradox of writing – remaining true to your feelings within the boundaries of your audience’s tastes. In life, too, we adapt our behavior to the people and situations we encounter, which is why writing often tells us so much about who we are.
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Hi there, I have no words to explain how much I am with you. I particularly like that comment on showing honesty to your writing.
That’s exactly the only way you can get yourself noticed through your writing Indeed good tips.
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Thank you so much for this great site. I’m a young peter pan (I’m 14) with a love of writing, and you inspire me. I thank you with all my young heart!
Dude! No words man, as a Peter Pan myself I’ve got to say I’m proud of you!
YES!! That is the key that a lot of unpublished (and will NEVER be published, beyond their personal blogs) writers don’t get.—> “Remaining true to your feelings within the boundaries of your audience’s tastes.” The lack of that distinction is also the problem with most of the blogs on the Web.
Writing for publication is not a narcissistic, self-centered act. It is about the reader. Yet, you can’t be inauthentic when you do it, because they will realize that.
Very well said, Evan. I’m looking forward to seeing you on Debbie Mahler’s Technical Tidbits this month.
Hello Evan,
I truly enjoy your writings. I was wondering what your writing style is. How do you decide what to write about and what process do you go though to refine it. Also, what sort of advice would you give to someone who wants to improve their writing. Thanks!
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